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I’m a sucker for online quizzes, and the BDSM test is no exception. I learned about it from my friend Rico a couple of years ago. Rico is the kind of guy who works a safe European postal job by day and goes to sex dungeons and kink parties by night. When he first told me stories about dominatrixes and tying people up and leather-clad twinks, I felt like I was standing on the edge of a new world. An alternative universe. And in this new universe, I needed to figure out who I was. I needed to figure out which games I wanted to play.
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